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2: Whats your gender? || You've been acquaintances in online circles for a few months now with someone who has a female-coded name and avatar. They never explicitly state their gender. After an irl group meetup, you find they're actually a medium-attractive man. This makes you _

male || like them more
13%
male || like them less
72.4%
female || like them more
4.3%
female || like them less
10.2%

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7:42 PM · Mar 16, 2022

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this needs a "*shrug*" option

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For both of these, I kinda wish there was a "like them about the same" option.

@wkswediik

Mar 16, 2022

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@Aella_Girl

In both cases I would be intrigued and more interested in them, therefore initially at least making me like them more.

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None of these answers fit me. I once knew someone on PSN who pretended to be a female for almost a year. Ended up finding out it was a guy. I initially liked him less, but grew to like him as I originally did before I found out.

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This has big “shrug” energy.

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@caratall

Mar 16, 2022

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@Aella_Girl

Am I gay? Are they a femboy? We're missing info here

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I don't judge whether I like a person based on the gender (if any) of their screen name and avatar. One friend used female coded name & game characters, gender ambigous in chat, never spoke on mic, turned out cishet male. I was like whatever, still liked them the same

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Angry tuba noises

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I need an option for "neutral" - I work at a company where nonbinary or trans gender expression is very common Also this question makes more sense a decade ago. Most online spaces involve pics, video, or audio chatting, so there's less surprise about this