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Your initiatory sex drive tends to drop around ____% of its initial strength after the beginning of a relationship (2-9 months or so)? (as in, if u initiated sex 10x a week at first, then after a year initiate 5x a week, this is a drop of 50%)

0-30%
29.6%
30%+
37.2%
increases, actually
13%
never had relationship
20.2%

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3:26 PM · Mar 13, 2022

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I haven't had enough relationships to be comfortable providing a statistically meaningful answer. 🤷

cosmochemonke

@cosmochemonkey

Mar 13, 2022

ooooof this would trigger the woke folk hard

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Depends on the dynamics of the relationship. This one, despite my desire to initiate, he doesn't like it, so my efforts are inversely proportional to my outcomes, sadly. This has kind of killed my libido.

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Increases. I mean, once you know someone likes you, there's never an internal reason not to initiate.

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Been so long since I've been with somebody new past the first 2 to 9 months. With my one long-term guy, interest stayed pretty level but was never that boosted and always higher than his. Long distance or not totally consummated, that shit increases 4ever

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…I don’t remember.

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adjust for age

OHH OHH OHH. I made 2 mistakes here😆 1- thought you were male 2- thought by "false advertising" you meant on your partner's part. As in your interest in sex went down because your partner made themself more appealing in the beginning. 🤦‍♂️