Do you feel multiple partners ‘takes away’ anything e.g. jaded, or do you feel more removed from intimacy as if you’re ‘going through the motions’ rather than fully present in the moment?
I haven't felt like multiple partners takes away anything (while I'm poly, sometimes my relationship looks very monogamous from the outside, and those times haven't felt any different in intimacy from when I/my partner are dating other people too).