I've been full blown, no-doubt polyamorous for ten years, Ask Me Anything while I make coffee
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What is the most common misconception you think others have about you being polyamorous? If not the same answer, what is the most common misconception you think others have regarding polyamory in general?
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People think polyamory means you're not committed or serious! Polyamory has *nothing* to do with commitment, imo; they're two separate factors; I think people are conflating a lot and I'm working on a blog post about this.
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I like this. I embrace the idea that love is not something that has to or should be possessive but is better for many when it is seen as expansive. Even better when there is compersion. I've enjoyed reading your posts and would be interested in that blog.
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Surely a ceiling is set though?!
If the specific question is ‘less committed than the average non poly?’ then sure, but maybe what the world needs is a higher avg level of commitment!
Even non romantic associations are more agentically effective with fewer ppl, for most things
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