I've been full blown, no-doubt polyamorous for ten years, Ask Me Anything while I make coffee
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what are the greatest benefits you’ve had for being poly and what are the biggest problems
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Benefits are, it feels healthy and loving? Like, it feels really deeply loving to me to allow my partner to do what they want. I don't have to suppress any romantic/sexual interest I naturally experience for other people when I'm im a relationship.
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Problems are, it can be more complicated. If you have multiple intertwined relationships going on, you might need to have even more talks; more unpredictable things happen, more emotions to manage. In some cases it can be more total effort.