if you were surprised to discover that "relationships take work," what were you expecting instead?
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what do people mean when they say "relationships take work"? concrete examples only pls
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it feels hard, from the inside, to know what is a reasonable amount of effort and what is letting something bad for you stretch on way too long. This feels like the important thing I'm learning to balance; the putting in work itself seems easy if you know that's what you want.
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damn, called out. wouldnt have occurred to me to describe this as work bc it's "selfish," wow what the heck, brain
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You’re describing internal work “how to understand my own needs/desires” where was posting more about what work do you have to put do externally for another person
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