it feels hard, from the inside, to know what is a reasonable amount of effort and what is letting something bad for you stretch on way too long. This feels like the important thing I'm learning to balance; the putting in work itself seems easy if you know that's what you want.
It is difficult to know, at the beginning, what one can endure for a lifetime. https://discordianquotes.com/quote/difficult-know-beginning-endure-lifetime…