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Ppl who are real into astrology/conspiracies/woo beliefs *really* trigger me, but it's not because of the beliefs themselves, it's what it indicates about the person. To me, it implies a profound lack of curiosity in checking to see if their beliefs are true. 1/
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They're drawn to woo beliefs because it feels good or serves some meaning purpose for them - which I get, I mean I was raised in religion - but there's a total absence of interest in tests to check other theories for why they might be experiencing this thing 2/
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I don't get this! How could you not be curious about other theories, when you *know* other people in the world deeply believe stuff that is clearly wrong? It *must* feel convincing to them, so "feeling convincing" to you shouldn't be sufficient criteria. 3/
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Getting to know someone really deeply requires setting aside your own models to step into their models; it requires being really interested in being willing to be wrong about someone, in actively seeking that out. It's a delicate, careful, nuanced process. 5/
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If someone fails at something so easy as woo, I doubt they'd succeed at something as difficult as understanding another human person. So I get triggered by ppl with real woo beliefs; I see them as not caring about something I deeply value, as incapable of understanding me. 6/6
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2/2 I wonder if your hang ups related to your childhood religious situation and your hyper logical processing stops you from exploring the more woowoo stuff because it triggers you and requires a leap out of rigid thinking and into the unknown.
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I love what you just said. I believed the universe would guide me in the right direction and things happen for a reason. This thinking would not let me leave an abusive relationship because I thought it was destiny. No one is destined to be togeather. Skepticism is needed.
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1/2 Wow this is so off to me. Many people with "woo" beliefs have a profound curiosity for truth and are continuously gathering more information to try to come closer, they just have a more open logical framework for processing information.
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