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My date-me experiment round has drawn to a bittersweet close. I feel pretty pessimistic about the idea of finding someone to date who I'm excited about. Any suggestions on how to increase the chances of meeting people I'd romantically like?

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You're going about this the wrong way (imo). Find someone who truly likes you and has good (maybe rare?) qualities. Focusing on looks, money, "compatibility" is missing the point. The most important qualities won't just magically fall into place simply because a guy is crazy hot

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what makes you think im prioritizing 'crazy hot'

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Sorry, my tweet came off as overly abrasive. Not my intention. I just see SO many people (perhaps you as well) who want the exciting over the substantive or think choosing the latter means totally giving up the former. If you want a 40+ year relationship, then choose accordingly

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