Some of the feedback on my frame control post centers around this being personal for me, or me "talking from abuse." I centered on personal examples because the nature of the issue makes it really hard to use other people's examples; it lies in the very tiny, nuanced details. 1/
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A *huge* amount of my post came out of talking to and being around others who were doing frame control, or had escaped from frame control. My post would have had a *very* different vibe if I'd pulled mostly from my childhood. 2/
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The post pulls from close encounters I had in or with people from 5 different heavy frame-control systems (not including my childhood), all of them different in small ways. 4 of those were ones I spent a long time listening to accounts from people impacted by them.
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It was well researched and written. It was non scientific but very impactful and helpful. Keep writing
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I noticed some of those comments. Ironically, I wondered what in their minds caused them to resist what you had to say.
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Your sources were speaking from abuse. Nothing wrong with that it's an important perspective, and it's the perspective of those who were abused.
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