Some of the feedback on my frame control post centers around this being personal for me, or me "talking from abuse." I centered on personal examples because the nature of the issue makes it really hard to use other people's examples; it lies in the very tiny, nuanced details. 1/
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A *huge* amount of my post came out of talking to and being around others who were doing frame control, or had escaped from frame control. My post would have had a *very* different vibe if I'd pulled mostly from my childhood. 2/
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The post pulls from close encounters I had in or with people from 5 different heavy frame-control systems (not including my childhood), all of them different in small ways. 4 of those were ones I spent a long time listening to accounts from people impacted by them.
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I feel like anyone demanding that you give precise examples might be either afraid that some person they admire is doing this, or might not have acknowledged the tremendous power of vibes
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It strikes me that framing isn’t necessarily abusive, whereas frame control *is*, because it forces a loaded narrative without consent. Is this your view?
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