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this is a true and important thing but in denying the significance of intent it is also a self-referential infohazard - I could feel it warping my frame as I read it
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in a sense it's a 'nobody wins in a knife fight' type deal
"consider that you may have lost a knife fight if you notice yourself bleeding" seems like a formulation of this that avoids seeing things as knife fights that could be seen otherwise
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