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I used to have this attitude of... medical professionals have trained a huge amount, and are very experienced, and it's a bit silly to think I, a rando with access to google, could make better decisions than they could. One of the key events that made me change my mind-
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was when I happened to end up going to two doctors back-to-back, and I asked them about the same issue - can I take birth control with estrogen if I get aural migraines? They both gave me strong, clear, confident answers - one yes, one no. I was so confused. 2/
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Realizing (for the first time in my life) I couldn't trust one of these doctor's opinions, I did my own research, digging deep into the... actually pretty spares literature about how dangerous it is. Evidence suggested yea it is more dangerous, but not a lot? 3/
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Iirc it was roughly around the same risk of stroke as getting in a car accident, per year. I was like oh, I'd be willing to take that risk, and then I didn't know why the doctors hadn't just *told me* what the increased risk was?? Did they even know?
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And I found out later that the literature on this is decades old, from when women were taking over 2x the amount of estrogen in their birth control than they are today, and there's evidence that stroke risk decreases proportionately with estrogen dose. Did the doctors know that??
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No, they probably didn't. And this experience helped destroy the magical aura of authority doctors had for me; after this I realized doctors were probably regurgitating outdated or bad information and completely ignorant to the actual risk differences.
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Once another doctor frowned when I described how an earlier doctor had treated me. Then he looked at the CDC website and was like "oh nvm the CDC updated its recommendation, you're fine." Did he even look at WHY it was updated? Did he AGREE with it? Ir-fucking-relevant.
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The more I interact with doctors, the more I become increasingly shocked at the lack of knowledge they seem to have about why they're doing what they're doing. They're like a dumb computer; punch in the symptoms and you get a binary "safe/not safe" treatment suggestion.
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At this point I've nearly fully taken over my own health. I research in depth every question I have by reading ACTUAL STUDIES, I order prescription medications from overseas online and lie nonstop to doctors when I can't, I order my own lab tests, I monitor my own damn self.
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