Would you consider your childhood abusive? || Are you really into BDSM?
- Yes || Yes7.8%
- Yes || No11.7%
- No || Yes20.2%
- No || No60.3%
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Yes/ But why correlate Bdsm w/an abusive upbringing. I think light restraints,biting, and blindfolds can be fun to incorporate into your sex life w/out it having a negative connotation.
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Hmm, physically very little - more just like general fighting that sometimes got ramped up to a physical level. I voted yes yes but I don't sense any connection personally
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No. Some light bdsm can be a turn on. Really into is a stretch for me. That said as a teenager it was a heavy element of fantasy
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from my own experience : the person that I know is the most into bdsm also experienced the most abusive childhood
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