If you're in a community with a dude that acts real sus towards women, the only options are a) kick him out or b) keep it hush. This sets up a bad binary; what if the dude isn't *quite* sus enough to justify the extremeness of kicking? What if he provides huge value elsewhere? 1/
-
-
I don't think this always happens - I've seen people take it real well! - but very often ppl who are exhibiting problems also have issues resolving those problems, and frequently you (espec. women) can sort of tell if 'trying to help' them will only backfire.
-
That’s a good point. I think it worked well in my situation because I was a third party, and not the focus. This is just where good community comes into to play. And I do understand what you’re saying, sometimes communication is not an option. I just feel it should be attempted
End of conversation
New conversation -
Loading seems to be taking a while.
Twitter may be over capacity or experiencing a momentary hiccup. Try again or visit Twitter Status for more information.