If you're in a community with a dude that acts real sus towards women, the only options are a) kick him out or b) keep it hush. This sets up a bad binary; what if the dude isn't *quite* sus enough to justify the extremeness of kicking? What if he provides huge value elsewhere? 1/
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No, you either have to take the extreme option or keep it totally hush, and then when finally it ends up blowing up people are like why were you suppressing this, but the answer is 'cause the only other option felt more extreme than warranted'
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Why not? I would suggest being straightforward and direct. Say exactly that and let him know it (not behind his back). Being brutally honest is usually the best thing.
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"You do bad shit x, but for the time being you positive contibution y outweighs that so we keep you ". Stating this transparently may even give him an good incentves.
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Why wouldn't it work? Its not like corporations and political movements are devoid of gossip.
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