Any good evopsych theories why?
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I doubt female bonobos like rougher bonobo porn than male bonobos
I think it's cultural - rough sex is a mental workaround for sexual shame. If (I pretend) I'm not responsible for it, my internal mom/church elder doesn't shame me for it
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we're just as equally related to chimpanzees and they regularly beat females out of the blue to intimidate them so they won't resist when the male eventually attempts to mate
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Hm. I didn't know that. Maybe it's the other way around then: the culture of shame is a rationalization for the violence?