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ppl be like "this is not how u do love aella" but I'd met this guy a few times before and we had 0 chemistry, no interest. it took till the end of our 3-day 1st date before finally I felt excited. the data worked first, then my heart followed. I'm so glad I listened to the data!

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

Jul 29, 2021

I've been really distracted over the past few months due to attempting to date a new person. It's the #2 top scorer from my date-me survey, and we're intentionally and rapidly escalating the relationship to figure out as hard and fast as possible if we could be life partners. 1/

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But… you gave it an 80% chance of failing. That’s only 10% better than I gave my marriage when we were headed for divorce.

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@ewall1498

if you spend 6 months for every 20% chance at a life partner, that great odds in just a few years if you keep repeating it.

4:55 PM · Jul 30, 2021

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There’s just so much that goes into that number that you can’t actually know that it feels more like a gauge of your excitement? And I can’t see spending 1 month, let alone 6, on anyone I wasn’t at least 60% into.