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    1. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      I carry it in my bones, it’s a heavy part of my history, and it’s strange and wonderful to have escaped, to be outside in a world that lets me have a wide variety of expression. My past feels like some dark, hidden dream that those around me have never dreamed themselves. 8/

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    2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      And I know a lot of current trad sexuality discourse is getting at a real thing, is trying to point out problems that exist in this weird progressive sex freedom, trying to protect ways people are hurt by this new approach. But... do they know how dark the dream can get? 9/

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    3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      To be clear, a lot of neo-trad-discourse ppl wouldn’t condone most of my upbringing. My old trad life was an extreme version, the values mandatory and heavy and cruel. But my old trad life had a lot of justifications, and it makes me nervous to see similar justifications now. 10/

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    4. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      One of the hard lessons of life is that there’s almost never a perfect option - in complex systems we get to pick between hurt and more hurt. Every suggestion will have downsides for someone, and if you claim your option will never hurt anyone then you’re delusional. 11/

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    5. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      And I’m not claiming that progressive sexuality doesn’t hurt anyone. It’s new and clumsy and I absolutely agree and sympathize with trying to point out and mitigate it and fight to protect those who would be much better suited for a trad life. I am claiming, however, 12/

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    6. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      That the worst version of progressive sexuality pales in comparison to the worst version of trad sexuality. History has had a lot of time to efficiently slam down human life and expression in traditional ways; the “but sexual freedom man” is a mild blip by comparison. 13/

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    7. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      I also think that trad sex/gender norms were probably there for a reason in older times; it’s not like everybody got together and was like “yeah, lets oppress everyone for fun”. Old brutal culture existed in a more brutal world, and trad stuff makes more sense w/ babies thrown in

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    8. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      But also extreme-trad stuff just... it really hurts to be in. It’s really bad. It hurt people I loved, it hurt me, and it’s a deep scar I’ll carry till I die. And I’m scared to see people roleplaying at some light version of what I went through without understanding this. 15/

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    9. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      I am absolutely down for discussions about the downsides of progressive sex culture. I’d love to figure out how to mitigate it, to make people not feel pressured, to support and protect the role of wives and mothers. I think this is important and good. 16

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    10. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      But as soon as it carries a hint of that old oppression, I’m out. I know exactly how they used to justify the bad, that sense of moral superiority. Your ability to enjoy finger-shaking from this trad shit is born out of privilege of never having to go through what I did. 17/

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      Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

      So let’s explore the downsides of freedom while still valuing the freedom itself; let’s compassionately try to solve the mental issues people are developing from progressive sex culture with solutions that aren’t worse than the problem we’re trying to solve. I think we can do it!

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        1. Dmitriy Kolesnikov 37‏ @NanoHydraulic Jul 20
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          Thanks for sharing your vulnerability. For all my theoretical appreciation of what you describe, your thread hits hard.

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        1. Trevor Jacob‏ @ts_jacob Jul 20
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          One question: what are some objective measures of well-being by which we can weigh the pros and cons of various approaches (rather than appealing to subjective experiences)? (To be clear, not debating your points here)

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        1. michael pawluk‏ @michaelpawluk1 Jul 20
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          This trad past life you experienced is why I've always related to you on some level. I grew up in a similar sheltered environment, as I'm sure many of your followers here have.

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        2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 20

          Yeah, pick the least-powerful point in the most uncharitably phrased way to undermine my point, ignore the fact that one of my friends was forbidden to move out of her father’s house until she could find another man whose authority to be under

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        1. visa is catching up on... tasks‏ @visakanv Jul 20
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          This was very skillfully written. idk if it means anything for you to hear this from me but i’m proud of you, you’re doing great (at least in this domain, from what i can tell)

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        1. Agamemnon López‏ @tasmaniacal1 Jul 20
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          Methinks the lady doth protest too much

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        1. Tyler Durden‏ @TylerJoeDurden Jul 20
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          Wow great thread. And credit to you for having the outlook you have now, after experiencing all you’ve experienced! 👏

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        1. Wolves‏ @Wol7es Jul 20
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          witnessed.

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        1. Adam Loumeau‏ @AdamLoumeau Jul 20
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          This is a phenomenally balanced and wise approach on a subject that I never hear anyone take a balanced approach, or at least not to this extent. Color me impressed. (Side note: it's so heartbreaking to hear about what you went through growing up. No one should go through that)

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