IMO trad isn’t losing, it’s emerging, and I think you can draw a pretty clean line there from a culture that increasingly uses “vanilla” as a put-down for girls that don’t want the crap beaten out of them during sex & “ghosting” as a euphemism for using & discarding sex partnershttps://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1417312778310746113 …
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I think both of you are advocating for balance using different words. The difference is whether you see the trad scene as advocating for homogenization of the entire dating culture or not. I read it as implicitly doing so, making both cultures homogenizing, but I could be wrong.
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What I’m trying to offer is that trad folks are fundamentally motivated by what they want for themselves, many are driven by harms from modern sexual culture that really are no less profound, and they are misrepresented by the assumption that they e.g. don’t care about gay rights
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I don’t think trad folks don’t care about gay rights, I’m saying “suppressing deviant sexuality” is a historic failure mode with that as an example (much as “pressure women to like kinky sex” would be a failure mode of progressive sexuality)
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