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I'd be more down with trad sexuality discourse if I felt like they sufficiently demonstrated an understanding of the downsides of trad sex cultures (especially on ppl actually ill suited for trad sexuality) and also if they had better alternative suggestions

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

Jul 20, 2021

cause atm I'm not fully convinced these ppl understand exactly why trad sexuality norms are losing out in today's sex battles; trad sexuality norms may have helped a lot, but they also really fucking hurt a lot too, and I want deep recognition of that before moving forward

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I'm sure for many people they can! and for many people they can't. I'm down with promoting trad sex lives as long as it doesn't do it to the exclusion of other norms, even subtly.

2:42 AM · Jul 20, 2021

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you literally cannot promote a norm without it being "to the exclusion of other norms" that's what it means to have a norm there can be only one default option

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You can't have "other norms". A norm by definition means there's only one and everything else is abnormal. Having more than one norm is really just the lack of a norm.

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