OK after reflecting on this, I think there's categories of details I've been treating differently without fully realizing it. It's easy to share fun/unusual details, or very painful ones I've come to terms with, but much harder to share active, salient, close-to-home things.https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1410411599278469120 …
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They also involve other people. Your stuff is yours to share but relationships and relations have their own privacy.
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I think that by sharing it, it liable to scrutiny which may change how you feel about someone or portray someone poorly. Sayinge your family was abusive but refusing to say your family is sick is an argument for normalcy. ie My dad was dick but he also taught me to fly a kite.
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Is it possible that sharing personal, non-entertaining stuff (entertaining as in "would put in a dark comedy skit") is what being vulnerable actually is? If you're able to share everything else but reluctant to share that, maybe you've never actually been vulnerable?
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Not trying to push a judgement on you, it's just that I had the exact same realisation some months earlier, concluded that I had probably faked vulnerability by sharing shocking-but-not-salient facts only.
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Worth considering, a lesson learned from my own experience (both direct and indirect): Every public figure requires a bubble that does not belong to the audience in order to stay sane.
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It seems normal that one don't want to be vulnerable. I know there's some discourse about it being good but why would it? Being vulnerable means you allow yourself to be more easily destroyed. There's a reason why we usually allow ourselves to be vulnerable only to selected ppl
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protection can be a smart play. There are enough people who mean you harm that having certain information can be ammunition for their devices. Look up the trust equation..., some people fall outside of the parameters so it makes sense your caution
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sorta reminds me of this thread by
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