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    1. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 1

      Aella Retweeted Aella

      OK after reflecting on this, I think there's categories of details I've been treating differently without fully realizing it. It's easy to share fun/unusual details, or very painful ones I've come to terms with, but much harder to share active, salient, close-to-home things.https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1410411599278469120 …

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      I think I'd normally overshare lots of details about my life but the eerie lack of other ppl doing so in my follower count range makes me think there's some good reason not to
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    2. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 1

      if you can put it in a stand up comedy routine, I'm down to share, even if it's real shocking or intimate. if you wanna hear about my journey healing from the trauma of childhood abuse, let's do it. but if I have sick family? relationship status changes? that feels weird.

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    3. Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 1

      maybe because the first two have concrete, somewhat impersonal ways they could be interesting to others? like sheer entertainment or a useful case study. Active personal life stuff feels more like... why am I telling you? do I care what you think? very vulnerable.

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      Aella‏Verified account @Aella_Girl Jul 1

      like, the first two, if you dislike it you're disliking my performance of a typically successful skill, and that doesn't feel threatening. but personal stuff isn't a skill, it's me. I am confused about why I feel so resistant to being vulnerable in that way.

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        1. Aliki Chapple‏ @amaenad Jul 1
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          They also involve other people. Your stuff is yours to share but relationships and relations have their own privacy.

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        1. Wolves‏ @Wol7es Jul 1
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          I think that by sharing it, it liable to scrutiny which may change how you feel about someone or portray someone poorly. Sayinge your family was abusive but refusing to say your family is sick is an argument for normalcy. ie My dad was dick but he also taught me to fly a kite.

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        2. errol‏ @LeRoyDesCimes Jul 1
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          Is it possible that sharing personal, non-entertaining stuff (entertaining as in "would put in a dark comedy skit") is what being vulnerable actually is? If you're able to share everything else but reluctant to share that, maybe you've never actually been vulnerable?

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        3. errol‏ @LeRoyDesCimes Jul 1
          Replying to @LeRoyDesCimes @Aella_Girl

          Not trying to push a judgement on you, it's just that I had the exact same realisation some months earlier, concluded that I had probably faked vulnerability by sharing shocking-but-not-salient facts only.

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        1. J. Daniel Sawyer‏ @dsawyer Jul 1
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          Worth considering, a lesson learned from my own experience (both direct and indirect): Every public figure requires a bubble that does not belong to the audience in order to stay sane.

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        1. Pirkka-Joose Sempé 27 5'3''‏ @pjsempe Jul 1
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          It seems normal that one don't want to be vulnerable. I know there's some discourse about it being good but why would it? Being vulnerable means you allow yourself to be more easily destroyed. There's a reason why we usually allow ourselves to be vulnerable only to selected ppl

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        1. Two Pears Studio‏ @delporteart Jul 1
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          protection can be a smart play. There are enough people who mean you harm that having certain information can be ammunition for their devices. Look up the trust equation..., some people fall outside of the parameters so it makes sense your caution

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        1. Em —‏ @ylimedeg Jul 6
          Replying to @Aella_Girl

          Em — Retweeted willow  🌱

          sorta reminds me of this thread by @willlowthewhisphttps://twitter.com/willlowthewhisp/status/1337809887032700928?s=20 …

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          willow  🌱 @willlowthewhisp
          I am not going to be vulnerable with you I do not trust you, I don't know anything about you, and you haven't taken the time to get to know me. I cannot play along with thid "let's connect because we are fundamentally connected" rather than because we have any shared interest
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