OK after reflecting on this, I think there's categories of details I've been treating differently without fully realizing it. It's easy to share fun/unusual details, or very painful ones I've come to terms with, but much harder to share active, salient, close-to-home things.https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1410411599278469120 …
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maybe because the first two have concrete, somewhat impersonal ways they could be interesting to others? like sheer entertainment or a useful case study. Active personal life stuff feels more like... why am I telling you? do I care what you think? very vulnerable.
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like, the first two, if you dislike it you're disliking my performance of a typically successful skill, and that doesn't feel threatening. but personal stuff isn't a skill, it's me. I am confused about why I feel so resistant to being vulnerable in that way.
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holy shit this makes so much sense
Thanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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