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are you kinky, and if so, are you obligate-kinky, where you require the presence of a kink (imagining it really hard counts) in order to have sexual pleasure? (further clarification below)
  • not kinky
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  • just normal kinky
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  • yes, obligate kinky
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"requiring for pleasure" doesn't necessarily mean you *cant* get off; something like "sex is kinda uninteresting and idk why people keep acting like it's so great" without the presence of the kink
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Obligate or normal. My theory is kinks are usually desensitisation. Sometimes deeper issues, but I think we overrate that. I've talked to ppl frustrated with kinks, and I always say: try abstaining. It's like a reset at some point.