I get ppl laughing "what did you expect?" when I ask why is casual sex bad so often? but also now I have an actual appreciation for good sex, which I learned *through having bad casual sex*. I know how to get what sexually satisfies me likely better than most trad wives.
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Makes a lot of sense to me.
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I feel like I have learned much more in partnerships than casual. IMO you can get more in touch with who you are and what you want when the novelty of your partner has worn off, and having that surety/confidence makes us better lovers with new or consistent partners.
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casual sex sucks the first couple times cause most people can't communicate for shit, like unless the person was like "Yo can you slap/choke the shit out of me as I cum" you're not gonna know that, and most people don't open like that early out unless you sexting in the DMs.
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I agree with this point, but it's more of an argument against one-night-stands. I have been having casual sex with 1 woman for over year. We filled out a spreadsheet I have to show compatibility and kink interests after the 2nd or 3rd time we met. It helps immensely.
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this thread works just well if you replace 'sex' with 'conversation'
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Or Indian food, really.
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Do you make it half an hour or more to an hour.।
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Agree: trial and error enables one to recognize the kind of sex that most satisfies them. Were your trials casual by choice? Did the relative transience come with any trade-offs in exchange for the learning?
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If you had the same duration of sexual experience with one man, and you both cared about each other's sexual satisfaction, you'd probably be as good, or better, at it with that man.
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There needs to be a school of pleasure… Kinsey meets practical instruction. The issue with casual is that so few see it as a learning opportunity and focus on the emptiness
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