I get ppl laughing "what did you expect?" when I ask why is casual sex bad so often?
but also now I have an actual appreciation for good sex, which I learned *through having bad casual sex*. I know how to get what sexually satisfies me likely better than most trad wives.
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and it's not just "I had bad sexual experiences so I like the good ones by contrast", it's that lots of casual sex was an active learning experience for me as I learned to navigate my desires with a partner who might not have matched up; what differences could I tolerate, or not?
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if I erased all the casual sex from my past, I feel pretty sure I would be worse at sex, worse at enjoying sex, and worse at knowing my own needs in the presence of someone I want to please. imo, my past casual sexcapades vastly increased the quality of my recent sex life.
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Related thought:
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Part of being good at sex is
1) knowing what you need to have a good time, and
2) knowing how to communicate that to your partner and advocate for yourself.
If you fail on those points, it's going to be very hard for you to have enjoyable sex, even in a long-term relationship.
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If women keep faking the orgasm, it won’t be easier to get the real satisfaction…
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The last sentence is weaker than average conjecture for you. The former are fine.
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