When people don't like you, you assume this is likely because they see you
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Missing option: "stopped caring about accuracy long ago since I won't enjoy their company if they decided they don't like me, and my happiness is more important to me than their correctness of the world"
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Inaccurately. However, I do think there are lots of good reasons to dislike me - it's just the haters don't seem to have those reasons.
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It's not that they don't understand me, it's that they have bad taste in people
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Accurately. And same with others.
Think about how much etiquette goes into hiding our personalities. How the partners we show our true selves to usually become the most distant ppl in our lives.
Ppl will dislike your confidence, your weakness, your ambition, lack of ambition..
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People see me as they are - so whatever I reflect to them in me being my most comfortable self is an accurate depiction