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Being an escort has given me the werewolf eye - every politician, philanthropist, celebrity looking sane and in control, they're just a few short steps away from tit-induced mania. Inside all of them is a flushed man hammering away at a vagina like an autistic kid building legos.

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

May 17, 2021

Comedian masturbates in front of coworker? Philanthropist pursues aid? Politician cheats on wife? These aren't abnormal, they are par for the course; little, slightly-more-visible blips in the giant undercurrent of men's repressed sexuality, only newsworthy cause we're in denial.

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

May 17, 2021

1. i think you can more than most ppl suspect 2. agreed it is a continuum 3. yes, married women have affairs - but there's some feeling i'm trying to convey that women don't seem to trigger, that men do.

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Have the men that didn't pay for you that you've had sex with know that people pay you for sex?

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what a weird question

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Not remotely. She is saying "men who hire sex workers are wolves, but in my experience even men who did not pay for me are wolves, ergo all men are wolves." But her sample is *men who are willing to sleep with a sex worker*, and most men are not.

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So my point is that Aella has not idea whether most men are wolves or not - Aella has not had enough sexual experience with men totally separate themselves from the world of sex work to actually know.

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Would your view update if I had a meaningful sample size of sex not as an escort too

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If you had a meaningful sample size of sex with men who did not know you were, or had been, an escort, yes. My argument is men who date current or former escorts, even if never clients, are possibly more similar to men that pay for escorts than you are allowing for.

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Cool, I do have a significantly above sample size of men from before I was an escort, before I even knew I was gonna do that

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So at the very least, men who are into casual sex, but who don't pay for sex or even possibly agree with sex work are still wolfish. Definitely adds to the picture!