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Lots of people in my mentions saying stuff like this. No, I actually was an escort and spent waaaay more hours than you actually talking to men about the circumstances that brought them here, and then having sex with them. Did you consider *asking me* if your theory is correct? t.co/uvp6hEUTP1

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Aella

@Aella_Girl

1. No, most - i'd say 80% had meaningful interest beyond the physicality. Some men *didn't have sex with me*. About 10% wanted sex but were uniquely interested in the personality, spent 90% of the time talking.

7:52 PM · May 17, 2021

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2. lots of men who weren't interested in my personality at all, also weren't aggressive at all. Lots were subby. Lots were shy. Some were sexually inexperienced and wanted to learn. I had a few self-conscious virgins.

Aella

@Aella_Girl

May 17, 2021

3. yes, *some* of the men fit your stereotype. I didn't like those very much; they usually had specific clothing requests and clearly were disconnected from my reactions during sex. I'd say around 15-20% of men who saw me were like this, not a majority.

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Seems like intimacy is the common craving among these men. The experience of interacting with an interesting and beautiful partner. It's a hell of an emotional rush, even if there's no sex.