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to clarify a few things 1. I talk about men as kinda gross in this thread, but I'm intentionally doing a pretty narrow aesthetic. I've also talked really glowingly about male sexuality and equally grossly about female sexuality; i don't mean to sound like i uniquely hate men
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Men are werewolves As an escort, I'd have dinner with an intelligent, perceptive man - ceo or something - and I'd think, no way he's a werewolf. When we end up in bed, he'll remain himself, conscious, alert. But no; they transformed every time into an unrecognizable sex creature.
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2. no, this isn't a selection effect from men who choose escorts. you don't know the kind of men who choose escorts; they're the people you know, your coworkers, friends, maybe it's you. They're not some other breed, they're *men* If anything it's selecting 'successful men'
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3. it's also true of non-paying men in my personal life, and I've historically been pretty slutty so I've got a decent sample size. It's just less noticeable because personal-life men have tended to be less 'business successful', they're less polished, so change is less startling
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4. a point i didn't emphasize enough was that this transformation is only stark cause of pressures on men - particularly high visibility, successful ones - to be nonsexual or sexually 'pure'. I wrote this after reading about Bill Gates and feeling mad at society's surprise.
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What did you expect those men to be like in sexual situations? I'm not sure I understand? Like were you expecting them to be witty and charming whilst having sex? Or alternatively, how do women have continuity here?
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Yes, kind of? Or maybe, expected larger parts to carry over from the person I'd just spent a lot of time getting to know. Like if they seemed in control and suave, I thought maybe they'd be in control and suave during sex.
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Do you think that you change during sex, and maybe that polarises the dynamic to allow or create more werewolfing? I have experienced something that might be similar and I now literally stop, back out of it, slow out of it. I don’t let that happen to me, because I don’t want it.
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Amazing honesty. This illusion is at the heart of a lot of male resentment regarding other men who to them are obvious cons but because the urbane/sophisticated/suave/confident story is so appealing to women they buy the con.
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