2. no, this isn't a selection effect from men who choose escorts. you don't know the kind of men who choose escorts; they're the people you know, your coworkers, friends, maybe it's you. They're not some other breed, they're *men* If anything it's selecting 'successful men'
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3. it's also true of non-paying men in my personal life, and I've historically been pretty slutty so I've got a decent sample size. It's just less noticeable because personal-life men have tended to be less 'business successful', they're less polished, so change is less startling
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4. a point i didn't emphasize enough was that this transformation is only stark cause of pressures on men - particularly high visibility, successful ones - to be nonsexual or sexually 'pure'. I wrote this after reading about Bill Gates and feeling mad at society's surprise.
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No, that's fair.
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Remember the open letter signed by many French women, including Catherine Denueve, that referenced exactly this? The tragedy and the pity of male sexuality?
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I’m different. I’ll prove it.
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What’s doing a pretty narrow aesthetic?
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This original thread is kind of opaque to me. They transform into "a sex creature". I don't fully get what you mean, but I've never seen any man or woman go through a wild transformation before sex, so I'm guessing you screen for men who have hidden aggression or something.
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Anytime someone says, "Men/women are all X in bed" it doesn't match my experience at all. You know why? Selection bias! We all select for what we find attractive. This means we end up with a pattern of similar men in our beds, and the men I select for my bed are not werewolves.
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In my experience, men get excitedly and slightly nervous, nonverbal, then very relieved when I give instructions on where to touch and what to do. I select different men than you, and not as an escort (you think this factor doesn't matter but I think it really does)
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