When I see people really deeply terrified about hurting others, to the point where it's hurting themselves, I get a strong urge to offer myself as someone for them to hurt so they can practice feeling safe causing pain to others
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I'm both sadistic and masochistic in a specific emotional sense, generally when it feels like a compassionate thing to do
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Could be physically! Also emotionally is fine too. Bdsm itself isn't really what I'm thinking
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Would you consider doing sessions for that? It would be really interesting to test whether it would work. I always had problems about hurting other people’s feelings so I always kept inside. Is it to fucked up to pay someone for this?
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And that too, is love 😂
I'd absolutely love to know how you came about developing such frameworks and unique processes of thought? Well rather, what your internal narrative has been all this time 🤔
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This is why jujitsu & other combat sports are important to a lot of young men. (Semi-) Safe places to learn to give and receive pain.
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