this might come as a shock but I feel kinda uncomfortable talking too directly about sex and what arouses me to the public, and I'm not fully sure why. Some theories:
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1 latent sexual shame that can only handle being publicly sexual when it's clearly compartmentalized
2 fear people will lie to me to make me think we're sexually compatible
3 i haven't seen other ppl do it yet
4 people might actually arouse me and thus have control over me (??)
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5 People are actually hardwired to keep this info private, the same way we are hardwired to feel uncomfortable naked around other people in non-intimate situations.
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We're not hardwired to feel uncomfortable around people naked. That's a socialized thing.
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I disagree. Socialization shapes it, but I'd venture, to a first approximation, girls entering puberty naturally start feeling awkward naked around strangers - and their male relatives.