I have a new Date Me survey - if you wanna date me, fill out my survey and maybe I'll ask you out or publish interesting correlations or something
https://form.typeform.com/to/o5sqkyg8
What about "anything that creates the right kind of feedback is great"? Sex is communication after all. I feel like I'll have to pick an answer at random here o.O
Imagine you alternate days having sex with two identical people, everything the same except one of them responds well with a lot of foreplay, and the other responds well with very little foreplay.
You have to pick *one* to have sex with for the rest of your life, which one?
I don't know. I have ADHD,so it probably depends on my mood and whichever one I had sex with last and how well it went ;-) I picked an option,but I can't really call it an honest choice.
Thinking about it a bit more,your scenario presents me with two bad options. I think I prefer some degree of variation in this. Like 0-100 in the time it takes to drop clothes is great sometimes and spending hours without necessarily getting to the "classic in/out" part is,too...