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like waht the HELL. why the FUCK are women in a very feminist world that distrusts men, so into sexual submission? why do so many women have rape fantsies when society classes rape as one of the worst things that could happen? how common throughout history are rape fantasies?

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why the HECK are men not as aroused by rape fantasies if women are, given theres a big incentive for men to be as sexually attractive as possible to women? we see this in terms of "having money" but *not* in terms of sexual fantasies. wtf? This is all confusing but-

imo vaguely points to sexual fantasies not being as pliable/culturally informed to the same degree as other mating behaviors. but if its more "inherent" or whatever, WHYYY is it mismatched between men and women? thats a weird thing for evolution to do

unless evolution drummed its fingers together, cackled evilly, and said "fewer men reproduce than women, and we need to make only a few men chads and the rest can just go be turned off by rape fantasies and help around the house" IN WHICH CASE THIS IS FRIGGIN WILD

but even if that's not the answer - why is this not one of the most common points of research and discussion i do not understand. this feels like a giant gurgling pit of juicy findings to pull out and write articles about and then get into wars on twitter over.

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Then we'd expect to see something similar to 'being gay' a few decades ago; you get born with something turning you on, society shames it, you're *still gay*, but you hide it. This implies that men 'actually like' rapeplay as much as women do, but my intuition says this isnt true

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and by 'intuition' i mean stuff like 'kink-positive circles would be analagous to safe spaces for gay men, so we should see an equivalent amount of dommy men in kink circles to subby women, but this doesn't seem to be the case'

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