Women are way more into sexual submission than anything else, and men are sorta vaguely 'into everything.' This is one of the most fascinating things to me. So far I've heard some casual theories about why this is, but not the level of discourse I'd expect from something so wild
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why the HECK are men not as aroused by rape fantasies if women are, given theres a big incentive for men to be as sexually attractive as possible to women? we see this in terms of "having money" but *not* in terms of sexual fantasies. wtf? This is all confusing but-
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imo vaguely points to sexual fantasies not being as pliable/culturally informed to the same degree as other mating behaviors. but if its more "inherent" or whatever, WHYYY is it mismatched between men and women? thats a weird thing for evolution to do
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unless evolution drummed its fingers together, cackled evilly, and said "fewer men reproduce than women, and we need to make only a few men chads and the rest can just go be turned off by rape fantasies and help around the house" IN WHICH CASE THIS IS FRIGGIN WILD
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but even if that's not the answer - why is this not one of the most common points of research and discussion i do not understand. this feels like a giant gurgling pit of juicy findings to pull out and write articles about and then get into wars on twitter over.
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I would predict that the more feminist the world the more these fantasies will be popular. No one is fantasizing about what's easily available.
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I think it's common in any person who is ashamed of their sexual desires. A fantasy where they get to have sex, but aren't responsible for choosing to do it.
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wtf, do you even have data supporting this? I feel like it's potentially harmful to just say things like this because you have some anecdotal evidence...
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