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What's your gender || Do you tend to overestimate how much your preferred gender likes you (e.g., flirting when they're not interested, mistakenly assuming interest), or underestimate it (e.g., missing when other people flirt with you, mistakenly assuming disinterest)?
  • male | overestimate
    18.4%
  • male | underestimate
    67.8%
  • female | overestimate
    4.4%
  • female | underestimate
    9.4%
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I'm a man so I probably overestimate it. I recall studies suggesting that the overwhelming majority of men are simply not attractive to an overwhelming majority of women but still tend to assume the opposite on pretty shaky grounds.
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it really fluctuates. sometimes i think everyone around me wants to fuck me, other times i feel invisible or unwanted. it goes both ways tho; sometimes i wanna bang everyone/everyone seems more attractive, other times i'm disinterested in everyone around me.
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I once had a friend who was going through a painful divorce & about once a month we'd catch up over food and she'd head home. One time we went to my place & I sat in my leather chair and she sat in my lap and we talked. At one pt she said "I think my boobs are getting bigger"
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I don't even know. I've been single so long the extremely rare times that anyone relates any intrest in me I'm completely surprised. But I also know my value so?.... I don't know how to answer this.