most women i've known would love to attend formal/fabulous balls for an excuse to dress up, and most men I've known have little interest in it, so i'm mad at men cause i've had like only 5 instances to do my damn best to look smoking hot and glittery and now i'm getting old
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Why not pay an escort or go by yourself, or go with another woman then?
Seems misplaced to have anger towards someone for not being interested in an activity you don't need them for.
If the idea is to peacock, then you can turn up anywhere dressed up. Doesn't need to be a ball.
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no, my point is that events like this that are relevant to my social sphere don't exist at all, not that i can't find a man to go with me
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You should come to Vienna in a non-Covid ball season. It's so normal to attend balls here that even the men are soaked in this culture. There even is a Science Ball ❤️
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I figured that out when I was living in San Francisco and had a lot of fun throwing parties for people to dress up at with that little insight
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Such events were the socio-sexual reactors of cultural evolution within a world of idealized behaviors.
Get rid of sexually and socially normative ideals, and the cultural evolution that produced such signaling events atrophies to the extent that the events become meaningless.
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Their economic viability is also severely undermined by the current ease of finding sexual partners without attending large social events, as well as the large amount of sexual energy that now finds its outlet in relation to virtual simulacra, rather than the primary activity.
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