Was this about emotions or BDSM? 
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I actually did end up tying up and (consensually) nonsexually torturing this person later actually! But no the original thing was about them working through emotional trauma originating in childhood
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what exactly do either of those mean
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Y'know how when you focus on a thing hard enough so that it grows to be your whole reality, like you "go look at it" and no part of you tries to distract or pull away from it?
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How did you figure it out? Also were you thinking along the lines of “when you go into the pain, you see that pain don’t hurt?”
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Ah, yeah, I've had multiple people look at me funny when I told them about the efficacy of recognizing pain as a biological signal and not something real
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Giving advice isn’t worth it. Most of the time people don’t actually use it even if they ask and if they do and it goes badly then they treat you as if it’s your fault. Best to just let people figure out their own problems imho
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Doesn’t even need to be ‘pain’, good entry point I’ve seen is cold, like cold showers. Seems like a vastly neglected area when dealing with chronic pain.
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All I could think of is: "Hi, I'm your dentist, Aella... ::drill whirrs:: I'm going to recommend that you go fully into your pain..."
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If there’s no lived experience of a distinction between the two, it’s very difficult to teach. The resistance needs to be revealed first. And that often requires real abiding, empathetic presence from another. (Or psychedelics).
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