Idk man. I know I was darkly kinky from an extremely young age, some of my earliest memories really! And I don't think this reflects a deeper meaning on my psychology, I suspect it's closer to genetic. I think it's same for at least some dudes with a sexual violence kink
i think it's all malleable except for a dash of gender. i could see genetics predisposing, tho
extremely young age doesn't necessarily mean genetic, etc.
Yeah I don't mean that it's not malleable, but I also think that it's likely you just get born wired with some preferences in you, and for me, my desires were so clear and early it seems likely to be at least in part my wiring