I asked a ton of monogamous people how long they'd been in their relationship, and a ton of poly people how long they'd been in their primary relationship. The average relationship length was almost identical.
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As in, the only purpose for not fucking a stranger is to *avoid making you feel insecure*. And imo, requiring your partner to avoid doing things that have nothing to do with you, but make you feel insecure, is pretty weird and often quite toxic.
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ok that makes more sense. I think where we differ might be be that I believe "don't fuck strangers" to be a good step towards a strong and healthy relationship with the 1 you love: a step towards security, health, and the purpose of nourishing intimacy.
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