I asked a ton of monogamous people how long they'd been in their relationship, and a ton of poly people how long they'd been in their primary relationship. The average relationship length was almost identical.
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As in; it's ok to ask for modification of behavior to accomplish a specific goal. "Be home by 8pm every night so our kids see their father" or "We have to put in 40 hours every week as cofounders on thsi business" But "don't fuck a stranger" isn't 'for a purpose'
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As in, the only purpose for not fucking a stranger is to *avoid making you feel insecure*. And imo, requiring your partner to avoid doing things that have nothing to do with you, but make you feel insecure, is pretty weird and often quite toxic.
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