I asked a ton of monogamous people how long they'd been in their relationship, and a ton of poly people how long they'd been in their primary relationship. The average relationship length was almost identical.
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I want more people to know themselves, which typically results in increased comfort with the self and soothing of insecurities, which makes polyamory more appealing
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is polygamy inevitable for all people who are comfortable with themselves and soothed of their insecurities?
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I think *not restricting your partner from intimacy with others in situations where this doesn't directly counter a separate commitment* is inevitable
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This seems like a strong causal claim, do you have non-anecdotal evidence for it? (The polyamory appeal bit, obvs with you on the rest)
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