I asked a ton of monogamous people how long they'd been in their relationship, and a ton of poly people how long they'd been in their primary relationship. The average relationship length was almost identical.
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I didn't ask about more than one of the partners for poly people (due to logistical limitations of question design) so it's possible those were shorter; however this indicates if you're the "main" squeeze of a poly person, there's about as much commitment as there is for monogs
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I want more people to know themselves, which typically results in increased comfort with the self and soothing of insecurities, which makes polyamory more appealing
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Have you had a truly symbiotic and mutually rewarding relationship where two souls become inseparable earned over multiple years?
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Right. Despite arguably a huge amount of monog relationships ending because of the monogamy!
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