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According to this overly simplified dichotomy I just made up, to the outside are you more "hard shell/intimidating/assesses others" or "no shell/no standards/big softie/tries to be assessed well by others"

Strongly hard shell
23.9%
Slightly hard shell
40.8%
Slightly no shell
24%
Strongly no shell
11.3%

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9:48 PM · Feb 7, 2021

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Secret Agent Randy Beans

@Lilonion7

Feb 7, 2021

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@Aella_Girl

My overall thing is to just assume I won't be assessed well by others, so act however seems fun or easy and then not like the poor assessment I get

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My self-image and the evidence obtained from how people treat me diverge.

With A Martyr Complex (5 Ruins Excavated)

@MartyrWith

Feb 7, 2021

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@Aella_Girl

I will queer this dichotomy like a newly discovered Mediterranean civilization

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I often make an effort to say hello to people but at the same time I’m slightly guarded to make anything deeper than small talk due to past traumas/ childhood bullying . My soft mint creme center is wonderful though!

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no shell attitude wise. physically look very guarded