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QC (4/10 Substack posts)

what is hatefucking 🤔 anyone wanna explain hatefucking to me?

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hatefucking seems like one of the ideal forms of fucking to me. can you imagine not having to even like your partner in order to get laid?

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QC (4/10 Substack posts)

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i just want to lovefuck tho 😔

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is this more of a boy thing?

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QC (4/10 Substack posts)

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probably the opposite if anything? idk tho

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in my overly simplistic stereotypes of the world, boys want to feel wanted, desired, needed, a woman 'thirsting for their cock' and 'riding them cowgirl' or whatever. and women want to be dominated/used/not cared about.

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it's the opposite of regular society, where male sexuality is shamed, and women's sexuality is idolized

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Trinley Goldenberg

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IME submissive women want to feel used/not wanted/treated as an object during sex, and then immediately after reassured that they are in fact wanted and cared about and desired.

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Trinley Goldenberg

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Even in more 24/7 dynamics it seems like there is a necessary balance where feelings get hurt if things go to long without gestures of caring etc.

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Trinley Goldenberg

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Is this contrary to your personal experience

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idk man. I like affection in relationships, and no affection in sex. If there was zero affection in the relationship itself i'd feel really bad.

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Even in casual sex I've been told by partners there is something akin to buyers remorse, where the not being cared about feels good during, but without aftercare can end up creating insecurity. I wonder if hatefucking mitigates this because you don't care about their opinion.

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