what is hatefucking 🤔 anyone wanna explain hatefucking to me?
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hatefucking seems like one of the ideal forms of fucking to me. can you imagine not having to even like your partner in order to get laid?
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I'm not sure it is, I think I would be devastated if I found out a partner didn't like me at all
tho looking at the replies, I don't think people are distinguishing between "hate" fucking and "angry" fucking
the former would make me sad but...
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i mean id be devastated if i thought they liked me and it turned out they didnt. but if they didnt like me the entire way through?
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I think I'd just never even consider them as a potential partner in that case 🤔
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sure, i guess i originally meant sexual partner. would you never have sex with someone where you didnt like each other but presumably were horny at each other?
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I meant sexual partner too, if I knew someone didn't like me, my libido would just yeet them out of the lineup
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this is kind of how my brain works in a monogamous context, too
I can still find people hot in the abstract ofc but if I'm securely attached in an exclusive relationship, specific people are just not sexually interesting anymore
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don't you get bored though? Or won't you eventually?
I don't think so? I'll let you know when I'm fifty lol
but...having had a promiscuous phase, an intense novelty-seeking phase, and a nonmonogamous phase...
I'm p sure that this is how my libido works and has basically always worked
I've had *fun* sex outside of exclusivity
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