Often people ask me "how do you deal with jealousy in polyamory?" When I get jealous, I meditate on the feeling. What am I afraid of? It's usually stuff like "I'm afraid he'll like her better than me" or "I'm afraid he'll leave me for her". 1/7
I think this is kind of true but also a wrong way to look at things; your sexual playing field sort of normalizes wherever you are on it. I have probably more trouble finding satisfying romantic partners now than I did years ago, or compared to less successful people.
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I would wager someone who is less attractive, less intelligent, less desired, and less financially secure than you would have a much harder time finding a satisfying romantic partner. At the very least, you'll always have high-level to perfect options. Not so for them.
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That your standards increasingly exceed your own qualities doesn't mean that you don't have way better options than people with far fewer qualities. You have the choice to scorn men that aren't even an option for others.
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