Often people ask me "how do you deal with jealousy in polyamory?" When I get jealous, I meditate on the feeling. What am I afraid of? It's usually stuff like "I'm afraid he'll like her better than me" or "I'm afraid he'll leave me for her". 1/7
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Have you checked out Relationship Anarchy (much less scary than it sounds). Sounds like you find it interesting. Seattle has a large and active (in normal times) community. http://www.relationship-anarchy.com/about
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Have you only been in polygynous relationships or in polyandrous ones, as well? If it’s the latter, do you have a clear preference?
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I've been in both, and I don't have a clear preference in the sense that I want them to do what they want, but ultimately I need to do the least emotional work when it's just me with a bunch of solo dudes
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It's super worth it. Jealousy doesn't always happen - usually for me it flares up at the beginning of a relationship, but *most* of my time in poly relationships is jealousy free, and it also gives you waaaaay more freedom and trust.
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How do you cope with feeling competitive with the other women?
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Aella is alpha, always

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You think exactly like me. That's really refreshing.
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Is there ever a point at which the finite nature of resources becomes an issue? Like, time and attention? I do not have any concerns about casual dalliances, but a parallel relationship... how do people have time? Especially with work and young kids.
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It can work and fall into place like any priority. But, just as with all the things we just don't have time for any longer, there is typically a natural decay in the secondary relationships during child raising times.
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