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Voluntary approaches with societal approval are useful here. Religious orders that practice celibacy are the most obvious but there are others. I find this post somewhat useful here:https://balioc.wordpress.com/2016/11/30/the-phantom-men-ness/ …
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the link here is using some fallacy along the lines of "because there are multiple way to be X, therefore it does not exist". Of course there are multiple paths to being masculine, just as there are multiple ways of being successful, being feminine, etc
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Priesthood.
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I feel like if you don’t whine about it, nobody asks and nobody cares. Except for a few assholes, but you can just ignore them
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Agreed. Just because some men are fragile doesn't mean society shames men generally.
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Depends on what you consider 'society' to be. Shaming men for celibacy seems very adolescent to me, like something that frat bros would do. Also, since incels have the word 'involuntary' right in the name, I feel like that's not a place lacking in shame either.
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I get that men can be pressured into having sex or are viewed as social outcasts, but many women buy into this perspective as well, and use sex talk to manipulate and control them. This seems less about shame and more about an underlying insecurity men have in how manly they are.
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Being a priest.
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