society shames men for not having sex, so is there a way for men to not have sex without the shame of not fucking? The closest thing I can think of is incels.
The reverse being women's rape fantasies
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society shames women for having sex, so the theory is that women have rape fantasies to be able to have sex without the shame of fucking.
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Voluntary approaches with societal approval are useful here. Religious orders that practice celibacy are the most obvious but there are others.
I find this post somewhat useful here:
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the link here is using some fallacy along the lines of "because there are multiple way to be X, therefore it does not exist".
Of course there are multiple paths to being masculine, just as there are multiple ways of being successful, being feminine, etc
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As a guy who's 28 and still hasn't gotten to 1st base, so to speak, yeah. It's a shame I deal with everyday, even in isolation during Covid.
I try not to care, I really do. I've had cam experiences but that was when I was 19/20 years old.
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You could always pay for it. Might actually help you out. Not such a big deal
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Nicola Tesla didn’t 🦴 . I suppose a priest or a monk grants one that right. There will always be whispers though